6 Easy Ways To Recharge Your Social Life
Sometimes things can feel a little stale. Maybe you’re a fraction flat. Work’s all-consuming. Or you’re just needing some new experiences and connections to feel fresh and energised again.
Here are 6 fun ways to refresh your social life and put a pep in your friendship step.
1. See social gatherings as opportunities
Get-togethers are a great way to make new friends and turn acquaintances into true friends. Sometimes it’s the event you don’t feel like going to where you meet or reconnect with someone and a new friendship begins! Starting a conversation in these environments can be pretty straightforward. You can ask this new person about their connection to your friend, or if you know something general about them, ask some questions. For example, “I heard you went to Thailand recently, how was it?” Because this new person is your friend’s friend, there’s a good chance they’ll be like-minded or share similar interests to you.
2. Add something new to the mix
With your regular, friend catch ups, could you replace one activity with another? Or, add something new? For example, instead of a long walk ever Sunday, could you enjoy a leisurely bike ride or kayak every second Sunday? Could you go to a talk or show every couple of months? And for some real indulgence, could you and your friend go on a wellness retreat this year?
3. Hit the clubs
Group catch ups to talk about a shared passion are a hit in two ways. You get to chat at length about something you love; and you get to connect with other enthusiasts. There are lots of clubs you could join or even create. Some examples include: a book club, movie club, running group, hiking group or photography club. Another way to expand your social circle is to ask your friends to bring a friend of theirs along. Who knows? This new person might become a great friend and expand your life in wonderful ways.
4. Collaborate and schedule
At our end of year dinner last year, my husband and I and our friends each had to suggest an activity we’d like to do as a group in 2019. This was lots of fun! We came up with four completely different activities that we’re really excited about. These four experiences will be fun and memorable and will no doubt enhance our friendship. So, with your group, come up with a few ideas and schedule them in.
5. Work it
Work is social. And for lots of people this is their favourite aspect of the work day. Socialising at work is also a great way to relieve stress and re-energise yourself. Try to have coffee or lunch with a workmate when you can. Don’t let months go by – there are laughs and great chats to be had! If there’s someone you work closely with or would like to know better, schedule in a coffee or walk break next week. Don’t forget to invite your new team member, client or business partner out as well.
6. Have far away fun with friends and siblings
Depending on your budget and holiday leave, perhaps you could organise a group weekend away or interstate or overseas holiday. Because of the busyness of daily life, and especially if you live far from friends or family, this time together is a wonderful chance to do things you normally couldn’t. Simple things like swimming, walks, cooking, watching movies and seeing your kids play together. And of course, there’s the big, exciting activities you do in a new place. This precious time will strengthen your bonds, create beautiful memories and maybe even inspire another getaway to look forward to.
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